Trust and Safety

Your Comfort. Your Privacy. Your Voice - Protected.

SpeakMyDesires is built on trust, respect, and complete discretion. Our platform is designed for adults who want a safe and meaningful space for private conversation, personal expression, and supportive human connection. Every feature we create is focused on protecting your identity and strengthening your sense of comfort. Learn more about how the platform works.

We don’t just believe in safety - we build it into every interaction.

Privacy by Design

Your identity stays yours.

Privacy by Design: You choose your display name and never need to share personal information with other users. We only request the details necessary for account security. All interactions take place between chosen identities, allowing both users and advisors to engage confidently and respectfully. Read our full confidentiality approach.

Voice-Based Platform: All communication occurs through voice or text. No video or face sharing is ever required.

Secure Connections: Calls, messages, and payments are encrypted using industry-standard security protocols.

We never record your calls. We never sell or share your information. Your privacy is built into our system.

Billing & Data Protection

Transparent, secure, and discreet.

All charges appear under a neutral business name to protect your privacy. All data transmitted through the platform is encrypted end-to-end. We never sell or share information with third parties, and payments are processed through certified PCI-compliant providers. Visit our About page to understand our mission.

Consent & Communication

Respect. Clarity. Boundaries.

Consent guides every conversation on our platform. This means:

• All interactions must be mutually agreed upon
• Either party may end a call or conversation at any time
• Harassment, coercion, or pressure of any kind is not tolerated
• Advisors are trained to prioritize user comfort, boundaries, and clear communication

Every experience begins and ends with consent. Advisors regularly complete training modules focused on communication skills, emotional awareness, and respectful engagement. Meet our verified advisors.

Reporting & Safety Tools

We give our community tools to stay safe and in control:

• Instant Block: Stop any interaction immediately
• Report Button: Flag behavior that violates our guidelines
• Human Moderation: Reports are reviewed quickly and confidentially by a real team member

We review all reports within 24 hours. Repeated violations result in permanent removal from the platform. False reports or misuse of these tools may result in account restrictions. View our user agreement.

Verified Advisors

Real people. Real conversations.

Every advisor on the platform must:

• Confirm they are an adult
• Complete a verification process
• Agree to our communication and conduct guidelines
• Participate in optional training for communication skills and safety practices

Verification protects both users and advisors and ensures a more trustworthy experience.

We don’t allow fake profiles or bots. Every voice you connect with is a real, verified individual.

Emotional Safety & Respectful Connection

Emotional safety is as important as privacy. We encourage empathy, listening, and thoughtful dialogue. Many users find that open, supportive conversation can promote confidence, reduce stress, and improve communication in daily life. Explore more insights on emotional connection.

We foster an environment where connection, expression, and comfort are valued without judgment.

Transparency and Continuous Improvement

We regularly review our practices to keep the platform safe, welcoming, and aligned with best-in-class standards. Advisors receive ongoing training in communication techniques and safety awareness. Explore popular advisors.

We invest in:

• Ongoing moderation enhancements
• User and advisor feedback
• New tools and resources for communication
• Community-driven improvements

Your voice matters, and so does your comfort.

Prohibited Conduct

To maintain a safe and respectful environment, we do not allow:

• Any illegal activity
• Requests for personal offline meetings
• Attempts to exchange personal contact information
• Attempts to bypass or misuse the platform or payment systems

Violations result in immediate account suspension and may be referred to authorities if required.

Platform Information

SpeakMyDesires.com provides communication-based, private conversation experiences for adults. This page describes our privacy, communication, and safety practices. Return to our main homepage.